Like so many of us, I have spent the last two days processing the passing of our beloved Dolly Parton. 

She was such a larger-than-life person who seems to have found a way to walk through the world as it was, without ever being reduced by it.  She managed to touch just about everyone here in the US and around the world with her kindness, joy and caring nature.  And what makes her passing truly difficult to accept or fathom in the moment, is the fact that another huge beacon of light has just gone out in an already dark world, and we are all feeling it deep within our souls! We were not expecting this, and it has shocked our system!

In these times of massive change and uncertainty, leaving many of us feeling so lost and broken, we yearn for clarity and guidance towards making things right and meaningful again.  The power of Dolly’s passing, is that her absence magnifies more deeply what we have been longing for for some time now, and the recognition of what we have collectively been settling for, for years, but can no longer accept as OK.  Living a life filled with love and joy are what truly gives us meaning and purpose!  But we can’t simply want these things – we have to become the example of what we want every day, just as she did!  She broke through barriers because she believed in herself, in her dreams, in her faith, and in her connection to family and community. Nothing in her life was easy, yet she never complained or spewed ugliness or defined herself as a victim.  She was grounded in what was important, and her focus was to share what she could to help others thrive, as well as to model an important truth that we can create the reality we desire if we believe in ourselves – because we are the only ones who can do that! Her example shows us what just one person can do to change the world, when they believe in their dreams and the power of kindness!  Imagine what a group of us can accomplish collectively when grounded in that same belief for our community, state and country!

I will miss Dolly so much!  Let’s honor her by believing in ourselves and showing her what we are made of! We have it within us to escape the ugliness and remake the world into a kinder, more compassionate, equitable and just reality!  Dolly spent her whole life caring for others and using her talent, creativity and wealth for good.  That’s the example that we and our country can aspire to again (becoming an even better version of who we were) – and it starts within each one of us!